chesneycat

I will try to remember that humanity in general is as thick as two short planks, and about as much use as a thimbleful of water in the flaming pits of Hell.  I will also remember some of my mother's best advice.  The world isn't made up of nice people.

I will lower my expectations of my imperfect peers.  They cannot be blamed for all of their shortcomings.

Having mentioned in the previous meme post that what I most dislike is willful ignorance, thoughtlessness and ingratitude, and that one of my main flaws is taking things too seriously, I will therefore try and take these things less personally.  People are like this, true, but they don't do it solely to Piss Me Off.  I will therefore try harder to ignore these flaws when the people around me are acting in such a matter - even when they take it to such an extent that they'd be a shoo-in for a gold medal in the combined willful ignorance, thoughtlessness and ingratitude Olympics.

I will remember that even when someone tells you they'll get back to you by a certain time, there's a damn good chance they won't.  It's not my fault that they're incapable of doing their job properly, and, if anything goes wrong, it's perfectly acceptable to leave them to clear up the resulting mess.

*sigh*

I should never have bothered getting out of bed this morning.

On sunday, we encountered a woman driver who was indisputably full of Fail.  Jez had parked outside the co-op, a couple of feet behind a small-ish estate car.  Plenty of room for the car to be manouevred out, especially since she had another two feet of empty space in front as well.  But, as we closed the car doors, she came running up to us.  Apparently, a space that I could've squeezed out of if it was a quarter of the size was far too small for her.  Could we please drop the car back another half mile or so? She was ever so sorry, but had just popped in to the shop to buy a pint of milk, and didn't think any other road users might just happen to park behind her while she was inside.  Because it's not the busiest local shop in the world or anything...

Oh, we silently obliged, but I'm sure the look on my face told her all she needed to know.   Lady, I know parallel parking can be tricky, but if your driving skills are THAT poor, you should NOT be on the road!  Sheesh, but you're giving your sex a bad name.

Rant number two - debt. I have every sympathy for people who get themselves into debt, but a story on the news this morning pissed me off a little.  They began it by explaining how this woman had suddenly found herself 40K in the red, but oh, she DESERVED our sympathy because it wasn't spent on luxuries, but on bills and mortgage payments which had doubled, and OH WHO COULD HAVE EXPECTED THAT?!

Sorry, but no.  Since when have interest rates always remained the same?  And it's not as if we don't have the memory of rocketing rates and repossessions in the 80s (and to a lesser extent, the 90s), is it?  Seriously, what do you EXPECT is going to happen when your lovely three-year fixed rate mortgage expires, and you end up on whatever the standard rate is today?  Come ON people - it's not rocket science!  Stretching yourself for a mortgage is bad enough if you know you can't really afford it, but displaying a level of willful ignorance that'd put an ostrich to shame...?  Nope, you're getting zero sympathy from this corner.

On a less snarky note, last night I gave a talk to our local astronomy society, and it went down wonderfully.  I'm so chuffed with myself.

EDIT - when I tag my posts with either "idiot of the week" or "rant of the week", surely a snarkfest isn't unexpected?  Oh, internet, you make me weep!